It is now official, I will spend most of my RPing time in Hogwarts Reborn and will only show up at WoH for Quidditch and the Leaky Party (I lost the trivia yesterday... *hides under a table*). Why? Well, someone (I have an idea who that might be) tried to implicate my blog in a grievance against Jody because she posted 2 comments in the Toby post to explain her side of the story in this whole affair... someone other then Toby saw it as a personal attack against her, told me I shouldn't have wrote that and shouldn't write what I'm thinking. In other words, was trying to tell me what to do with MY blog. It is probably that same person, realizing that I would not do what she was telling me, that told the GMs who were taking care of all the grievance sent against Jody to put her into more trouble, to put me in trouble for speaking out and to put my blog under the control of someone else then me. Fortunately, the GMs believe in the freedom of speech and some read my blog as it was put under the spotlights. So thanks for the publicity.
Also, all small mention on RPOs. They are doing a job that is for the public, therefore they should be aware that they expose themselves to criticism, just like I expose myself for stating my personal opinion in this blog. If they can't take it and get mad at any one who criticize their work, well, they should go back to normal RPing and quit the Drama Faculty, as no one will ever be able to stop anyone from saying their opinion. After all, even if there is no TRUE democracy in RPing or even in SL and that most people deal with that perfectly well as it is not either a dictatorship, there is one thing NO ONE (except some mental ones) will (or should) ever give up: the freedom of speech.
That is all for today, and I'll see everybody of WoH who read this blog at Quidditch or at the Leaky on Saturday nights. Here is a vid that has absolutely nothing to do with what I wrote, but I just like the song.
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I am writing to defend my friend. I have known Cammie for about two years and she is truly the warmest hearted person I know. I have talked to her at length about this and she won’t come on her to defend herself so I will do it for her. I have seen the chat logs Cath and she never once told you not to write anything you want. She did however ask (ASK!!!) you to do her a favor and not hurt her dear and close friends. So, you are lying to everyone when you say she told you to do a bunch of crap you didn’t want to. And I have seen the log from tylor that proves this. I have read your whole blog and talked to cammie for what amounts to days about this. Cath, she really loved you as a friend. I have heard about the things she did for you which makes you extremely ungrateful in my book. Yours and Jody’s words are completely skewed. And both of you have done nothing but lie and insult people. How can anyone set someone up like you are saying? No one other than yourself can control your own actions. Cammie never filed a complaint against you Cath. She never implicated you in anything. So, you are a liar. She did file a complaint against Jody because Jody lied to her and caused her to get into a fight with another official and continuously broke the game rules. It looks like Jody just likes to break the rules then complain about it. Cammie ended her friendship with Jody because of the way jody treated others. That’s it! From what I saw Jody treats people cruelly and unjust. You did not tell your side of a story you bashed and insulted a friend of hers. You talk about choices. It was your choice to be mean to people it was your choice to lie. It was caths choice to write cruel and intentionally hurtful things about people cammie loves. You chose insulting people over friendship!!! You made her choices for her. It’s so funny how now you two are the victims. Jody just wants to be left alone. Cammie never did anything to you! Other then remove you from her list. You spread rumors about her having some group and setting you up! You are both delusional. I don’t know either of you. I have never been on that game. But I have seen the logs. It’s a frecking GAME! You got personally upset because someone called your cartoon red and sweety! That is ridiculous. I have seen Cammies heart and you two are just evil for the way you are treating other people. You have probably never done anything to help people like she has. So, good choice freedom of speech over your friendship. She shouldn’t have had to ask you not to write mean things about her and her friends. You as a friend shouldn’t have wanted to do that in the first place.
You invited her to read your blog!!! And you know that so to say she was not forced is irrelevant. You know she read it. And you hurt her. It said in your blog you promised to never hurt her on purpose. Guess what you lied again. You did. You made your choice you chose jody over her. You have no loyalty whatsoever. From what I can see you deserve each other. Cammie quit all her jobs on the game so you win. I hope you are happy about it. Now you can take over. Oh no that’s right you don’t really want to help people you just want to complain about the people that put their blood sweat and tears into something for your enjoyment. I’m relatively sure you wont print this. But I don’t care. You are both horrible for what you did to someone you called a friend. It seems like you stopped being her friend when she came out to you. That is just my opinion. And she even says it has nothing to do with it. I saw the logs where Caammie tried to make up with Jody and even said she was sorry.. What I have not seen in all the hours and hours of logs I saw is were either of you admit to being wrong and saying your sorry to her. Of course you probably have never done anything wrong. For that damn you both for hurting such a wonderful person. Jody in your profile you say u are a Christian and at the same time insult a good person. What kind of Christian are you? That’s all I have to say.
First off Ashley I respect your right to have an opinion which is something I am asking that you guys do as well please. I have never lied to Capetown and if she got into a fight with someone that was not my doing and have no knowledge of this. Yes she did have a group called (we hate!!!) Support Group against a sim official, probably the one that caused LeCompte to step down. I could quote to you the group information about She who must not be named being the most annoying person in SL and that being your place to vent. I could also list the group members including Capetown as the owner of the group and what members and their alts were in the group but will not name names on a blog out of respect. Please do not try to insult us by saying the group did not exist as I saw it before they hid it in their profiles. You're right they did not file complaints against Cath, only me but Cath's blog was brought into it and dismissed as well. Which is fine because they are all being thrown out because the GM knew they were just being filed out of personal vindictiveness and not from anything valid. I know this from speaking with the GM personally. Bottom line to all of this is that you all hate me for reasons still not known. I know from Tamara contacting my new ic bf in HR which is way beyond inappropriate to begin with that one reason is I supposedly cared more about an ic death than that of her grandfathers. This is also a lie. I cared a great deal about Tamara when this was going on. Everyday I gave her hugs, asked if she was okay, asked how he was doing and asked if there was anything I could do. What you may not know is that I also had a lot going on in MY real life. I also had a very close friend in SL who was logging in from the hospital she was in due to a serious illness and when she logged in she took priority over ANYONE else in SL. I was also in and out of the emergency room at that time with illness of my own. Did I tell her any of this? No. For one reason my sick friend asked me not to. For another I figured she had enough to deal with at the time. Plus not everyone deals with death appropriatly and for me its a difficult topic so I apologize if I was not supportive enough as a friend but I find that a horrible thing to hold against me now as I did my best to be there for you. Yes I have taken a break from WoH because of the issues there with the exception of one class and quidditch. I simply have put it all behind me and wish that others could do the same. I do not seek you or your friends out in an attempt to hurt anyone and would appreciate the same in return. Please do not IM my new friends about this because you do not know them and my friends are loyal and will defend me like crazy if you do despite me telling him not to provoke anything about this because I dont want anything to be held against him because we are close. I know Arren IM'd Toby and believe me I got into an arguement with him about it because I did NOT ask him to do that and furthermore have asked him never to contact any of you on my behalf. I fight my own battles, win or lose, I don't drag my friends into them. I moved on and am happy RPing in HR. I have also applied for the new sim which I had intended to do LONG before I knew who the ooc staff was. To me the fact you are all on the staff doesn't matter because I just want to rp and have fun with the many friends I still have. I never decided not to be friends with the group, you all did. That's your right and I wont try to change it. Yes Capetown apologized but it was after a week of nasty notecards and all the hurtful things she felt the need to say to me. I'm sorry but I did not see a point in trying to work it out after that but that is my perogative as a human being. I have heard that I may not get accepted at the new sim because of ooc differences from a WoH. I do hope that is not the case. I am hoping that in your new ooc positions you find a way to be objective with new applicants. I'm not coming there to cause problems with any of you I simply don't care enough about the past issues to pursue causing trouble. You are right, its a game and I just want to play it. I have never claimed to have been perfect in all this. I messed up with Toby big time and will always regret that and if he ever gave me the chance I would apologize to him. But that will never happen and I'm okay with that, he moved on too. Capetown made the choice that we were not friends and that is fine too I got over it. The only reason I deleted Tamara and George was because of the set up as the alts which I have logs to prove. Tamara said that fight occured because WoH had no training system and she'd do whatever it took to get that in place. I see now that whatever it took meant even starting a fight for no reason. Noone forced me to be mean to you two that day but I felt ganged up on and I felt cornered by people who were being rude to me and I got mad. So sue me for being human. I do regret the way I spoke to you and apologized to Logan, Hunter had informed me not to speak to "him" and therefore did not pursue it otherwise I'd have apologized to "him" as well. I am sorry for a lot of the mistakes I have made. All I'm trying to do is move on. I am hoping all of you can do the same and agree to co-exist. Because we all have a similar interest in Harry Potter it is inevitable that our paths will cross. I'm not out to get anyone, I'm just out to have fun and play like everyone else. So here it is...I would like to formally apologize to anyone who may care enough to hear it. I have said some awful things in the past that I regret. All I can say is that I'm human just like the rest of us who has been going through a very hard time in my RL, never claimed to be perfect and when I am overly stressed or hurt or whatever I've been in the last several months I don't always make the best choices. I am sorry for anything I've done or said to hurt people I truly am. But I've been hurt from all this to. All I ask is that you try to understand that as well. Take this for whatever its worth to you which probably isn't much. I never hated any of you, its a game and I will not waste the energy it takes on such a terrible emotion such as hate on people I do not know. I cared very much about all of you and I am sorry it ended this way. But now all I want is enough peace to allow co-existance. The question to you now is, will you allow co-existance? I do miss all of your friendships and truly wish this was behind us. My effort towards co-existance is that I will remove the comments in my profile about you (as soon as I can log in when I get home later tonight) and will not post on here about this again unless to respond to one of you on something that might need a response. I hope that will be enough.
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I am writing to defend my friend. I have known Cammie for about two years and she is truly the warmest hearted person I know. I have talked to her at length about this and she won’t come on her to defend herself so I will do it for her. I have seen the chat logs Cath and she never once told you not to write anything you want. She did however ask (ASK!!!) you to do her a favor and not hurt her dear and close friends. So, you are lying to everyone when you say she told you to do a bunch of crap you didn’t want to. And I have seen the log from tylor that proves this. I have read your whole blog and talked to cammie for what amounts to days about this. Cath, she really loved you as a friend. I have heard about the things she did for you which makes you extremely ungrateful in my book. Yours and Jody’s words are completely skewed. And both of you have done nothing but lie and insult people. How can anyone set someone up like you are saying? No one other than yourself can control your own actions. Cammie never filed a complaint against you Cath. She never implicated you in anything. So, you are a liar. She did file a complaint against Jody because Jody lied to her and caused her to get into a fight with another official and continuously broke the game rules. It looks like Jody just likes to break the rules then complain about it. Cammie ended her friendship with Jody because of the way jody treated others. That’s it! From what I saw Jody treats people cruelly and unjust. You did not tell your side of a story you bashed and insulted a friend of hers. You talk about choices. It was your choice to be mean to people it was your choice to lie. It was caths choice to write cruel and intentionally hurtful things about people cammie loves. You chose insulting people over friendship!!! You made her choices for her. It’s so funny how now you two are the victims. Jody just wants to be left alone. Cammie never did anything to you! Other then remove you from her list. You spread rumors about her having some group and setting you up! You are both delusional. I don’t know either of you. I have never been on that game. But I have seen the logs. It’s a frecking GAME! You got personally upset because someone called your cartoon red and sweety! That is ridiculous. I have seen Cammies heart and you two are just evil for the way you are treating other people. You have probably never done anything to help people like she has. So, good choice freedom of speech over your friendship. She shouldn’t have had to ask you not to write mean things about her and her friends. You as a friend shouldn’t have wanted to do that in the first place.
You invited her to read your blog!!! And you know that so to say she was not forced is irrelevant. You know she read it. And you hurt her. It said in your blog you promised to never hurt her on purpose. Guess what you lied again. You did. You made your choice you chose jody over her. You have no loyalty whatsoever. From what I can see you deserve each other. Cammie quit all her jobs on the game so you win. I hope you are happy about it. Now you can take over. Oh no that’s right you don’t really want to help people you just want to complain about the people that put their blood sweat and tears into something for your enjoyment. I’m relatively sure you wont print this. But I don’t care. You are both horrible for what you did to someone you called a friend. It seems like you stopped being her friend when she came out to you. That is just my opinion. And she even says it has nothing to do with it. I saw the logs where Caammie tried to make up with Jody and even said she was sorry.. What I have not seen in all the hours and hours of logs I saw is were either of you admit to being wrong and saying your sorry to her. Of course you probably have never done anything wrong. For that damn you both for hurting such a wonderful person. Jody in your profile you say u are a Christian and at the same time insult a good person. What kind of Christian are you? That’s all I have to say.
Ashley
First off Ashley I respect your right to have an opinion which is something I am asking that you guys do as well please. I have never lied to Capetown and if she got into a fight with someone that was not my doing and have no knowledge of this. Yes she did have a group called (we hate!!!) Support Group against a sim official, probably the one that caused LeCompte to step down. I could quote to you the group information about She who must not be named being the most annoying person in SL and that being your place to vent. I could also list the group members including Capetown as the owner of the group and what members and their alts were in the group but will not name names on a blog out of respect. Please do not try to insult us by saying the group did not exist as I saw it before they hid it in their profiles.
You're right they did not file complaints against Cath, only me but Cath's blog was brought into it and dismissed as well. Which is fine because they are all being thrown out because the GM knew they were just being filed out of personal vindictiveness and not from anything valid. I know this from speaking with the GM personally.
Bottom line to all of this is that you all hate me for reasons still not known. I know from Tamara contacting my new ic bf in HR which is way beyond inappropriate to begin with that one reason is I supposedly cared more about an ic death than that of her grandfathers. This is also a lie. I cared a great deal about Tamara when this was going on. Everyday I gave her hugs, asked if she was okay, asked how he was doing and asked if there was anything I could do. What you may not know is that I also had a lot going on in MY real life. I also had a very close friend in SL who was logging in from the hospital she was in due to a serious illness and when she logged in she took priority over ANYONE else in SL. I was also in and out of the emergency room at that time with illness of my own. Did I tell her any of this? No. For one reason my sick friend asked me not to. For another I figured she had enough to deal with at the time. Plus not everyone deals with death appropriatly and for me its a difficult topic so I apologize if I was not supportive enough as a friend but I find that a horrible thing to hold against me now as I did my best to be there for you.
Yes I have taken a break from WoH because of the issues there with the exception of one class and quidditch. I simply have put it all behind me and wish that others could do the same. I do not seek you or your friends out in an attempt to hurt anyone and would appreciate the same in return. Please do not IM my new friends about this because you do not know them and my friends are loyal and will defend me like crazy if you do despite me telling him not to provoke anything about this because I dont want anything to be held against him because we are close. I know Arren IM'd Toby and believe me I got into an arguement with him about it because I did NOT ask him to do that and furthermore have asked him never to contact any of you on my behalf. I fight my own battles, win or lose, I don't drag my friends into them. I moved on and am happy RPing in HR.
I have also applied for the new sim which I had intended to do LONG before I knew who the ooc staff was. To me the fact you are all on the staff doesn't matter because I just want to rp and have fun with the many friends I still have. I never decided not to be friends with the group, you all did. That's your right and I wont try to change it. Yes Capetown apologized but it was after a week of nasty notecards and all the hurtful things she felt the need to say to me. I'm sorry but I did not see a point in trying to work it out after that but that is my perogative as a human being.
I have heard that I may not get accepted at the new sim because of ooc differences from a WoH. I do hope that is not the case. I am hoping that in your new ooc positions you find a way to be objective with new applicants. I'm not coming there to cause problems with any of you I simply don't care enough about the past issues to pursue causing trouble. You are right, its a game and I just want to play it.
I have never claimed to have been perfect in all this. I messed up with Toby big time and will always regret that and if he ever gave me the chance I would apologize to him. But that will never happen and I'm okay with that, he moved on too. Capetown made the choice that we were not friends and that is fine too I got over it. The only reason I deleted Tamara and George was because of the set up as the alts which I have logs to prove. Tamara said that fight occured because WoH had no training system and she'd do whatever it took to get that in place. I see now that whatever it took meant even starting a fight for no reason. Noone forced me to be mean to you two that day but I felt ganged up on and I felt cornered by people who were being rude to me and I got mad. So sue me for being human. I do regret the way I spoke to you and apologized to Logan, Hunter had informed me not to speak to "him" and therefore did not pursue it otherwise I'd have apologized to "him" as well.
I am sorry for a lot of the mistakes I have made. All I'm trying to do is move on. I am hoping all of you can do the same and agree to co-exist. Because we all have a similar interest in Harry Potter it is inevitable that our paths will cross. I'm not out to get anyone, I'm just out to have fun and play like everyone else.
So here it is...I would like to formally apologize to anyone who may care enough to hear it. I have said some awful things in the past that I regret. All I can say is that I'm human just like the rest of us who has been going through a very hard time in my RL, never claimed to be perfect and when I am overly stressed or hurt or whatever I've been in the last several months I don't always make the best choices. I am sorry for anything I've done or said to hurt people I truly am. But I've been hurt from all this to. All I ask is that you try to understand that as well. Take this for whatever its worth to you which probably isn't much. I never hated any of you, its a game and I will not waste the energy it takes on such a terrible emotion such as hate on people I do not know. I cared very much about all of you and I am sorry it ended this way. But now all I want is enough peace to allow co-existance. The question to you now is, will you allow co-existance? I do miss all of your friendships and truly wish this was behind us. My effort towards co-existance is that I will remove the comments in my profile about you (as soon as I can log in when I get home later tonight) and will not post on here about this again unless to respond to one of you on something that might need a response. I hope that will be enough.
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