Now, I have a source that seems to know loads of stuff about what is going in Big Brother's office. RPOs bugging an RPer because said RPer told that a plot was stupid and impossible to an RPO who is probably the one who approved it, sims official they were thinking about quitting, but didn't hopping things would be better... Also, rumor has it that RPOs are perhaps bugging people a bit too much which result in the quitting of those individuals. Will WoH eventually disappear, or will RPOs will finally realize what they are doing?
Now, updates on the "Toby story". Anyone who went to the last two leaky parties probably noticed him, hanging around and making sure everyone knew OOCly that he was there. In fact, he first appeared at the party that was right after the Gryff vs Huff match. Perhaps he was hoping the team had lost without him playing... Anyway, this former friend left the sim about two months ago and there is still a plot with him in it. HE QUIT! HE LEFT! HE'S TOO STUBBORN TO COME BACK! LET HIM OUT OF ALL THE FREAKIN' PLOTS! He needs to learn that the way he behaved doesn't usually pay out, may it be in RL or SL. Oh, and the plot about him? He was kidnapped... but his IC girlfriend didn't noticed, his Quid team never noticed either, I became co-captain out of nowhere, not knowing who i was replacing... RIDICULOUS! THE DUDE LEFT BECAUSE HE COULDN'T ACCEPT CRITICS. HE WAS A LAME RPO, WOULD BE RUDE IF ANYONE HAD DOUBTS ABOUT HIS DECISIONS! *is doing all the capitals by holding "shift" instead of just hitting "Caps Lock"* HE NEEDS TO LIVE WITH HIS DECISION! DEAL WITH IT MAN! BE A FREAKIN' MAN! WAKE UP! YOU AREN'T REALLY 13, SO STOP ACTING LIKE A 13 YEARS OLD KID! GET A FREAKIN' LIFE INSTEAD OF TRYING TO TRANSFORM OTHER'S LIFE INTO A MISERABLE ONE! *takes a deep breath* Ok, to whoever is reading this and is thinking: a) she must be drunk, b) she must be tired or c) is that a flying coconut?, I'm not drunk, a bit tired, but that makes me more honest. On the other hand, if you are thinking that Toby is a nice boy (AH!) and that I have no right to criticize him, I would technically say SCREW YOU!, but because probably a friend of mine thinks that, I will just say: We disagreed in the past, and it's not because you think he's nice that my opinion will change about him. What he did to a friend, transforming her into an emotional wreck, is unacceptable, and the wizarding world could pretty much work without him (especially since he doesn't know much about the World of Harry Potter). Also, to whoever might think he needs to read this for whatever reason, tell him to do so, as perhaps he'll realize what some people think about him.
'Night, and here is a vid dedicated to IC Toby, as OOCly, he really likes boys... (might also represent how someone thinks at the moment)
2 comments:
Who'd have thought we'd have gone from constantly trying to find new ways of attacking each other to being such close friends!! Because I know you do have several people that read this blog that do not share this opinion I will not say everything I felt when reading this blog. Instead I will sum it up by saying very well written and you said many things I've felt but have not wanted to say outloud!!
I really wish people would realize that he left on his own. I will never deny my part in our fight or try to say I had NOTHING to do with him WANTING to leave. But the fact is simple...he left and it was his choice. His new plot is just proof positive that part of what the fight was about (his inability to write a plot that made sense or people would enjoy or wasn't plain STUPID)...well my opinion then was correct and it has only gotten worse. Him stepping down from RPL was the best thing for WoH. Can't tell you how many people came to me complaining about how "new Toby" was acting back then. Could I have approached the issue more gently? Of course...but I'm a stubborn Taurus with a temper and he pissed me off for 2 months with how he was talking to me and one day I just snapped.
Point is tho, noone held a gun to his head to make him leave, no one forced him into that decision. He's a grown adult and a very intelligent one (we know this because of his condescending nature always wanting us to know his level of intelligence with his triple word score vocabulary he tries to cram down our necks every chance he gets). He left because he couldn't handle hearing the truth, he left because the job of RPL was too much stress for him, he left because as he even said himself at times he wasn't emotionally able to deal with any more stress. (and yes I have logs to back all that up). He was a sim officer who couldn't take criticisms or concerns and that is not the kind of sim officer we should have. When asked if I could express a concern was told NO because he wasn't emotionally able to deal with it if the concerns were going to piss him off. Would Danton ever have said that???? Easy to answer that one - NO!
He was a person who had never read a single Harry Potter book and it was evident in his PCPs...he never applied to be an RPO let alone an RPL and to be given the job was just a tragedy for the sim as he wasn't qualified nor emotionally stable enough to hold a position that would inevitably lead to criticisms.
I left sim for 2 months and came back and see he has a new approved plot which amazes me for someone who quit the sim. And no surprise here, the plot is retarded. If he were to try to explain his absence by saying kidnapped it should've happened the week after he left. Now its just kinda dumb which is why I'm not rping anything about it.
And he's now playing a supposed old man yet in his 13 year old shape and no modified height or build. If you want to be a kid be a kid, if you want to be an adult, at least look the part. I stand behind the things I told him back then because they were truth and not only my words or opinions. I wish I could've approached it when we were not in the midst of a fight but I had been avoiding the issue for too long and mid fight it came out.
Those that want to hold me responsible and stop being my friend, all I can say is good riddance because I don't hang out with narrow-minded idiots that refuse to acknowledge that he left on his own. We had a fight, I chose to take some time to get over it, he chose to quit and run away. We all make our choices and we all have to live with them.
The fact is the only persons actions I can control are my own, and even that most days is questionable. If you want to blame someone for him quitting, blame him as it was his choice and his choice alone. Was it influenced by our fight, sure, but it was HIS CHOICE! I missed him like crazy when he left and it broke my heart to see him go. I cried for a long time after that. But then my real life took a nasty turn and between medical issues and trying to save my marriage I've been a little too busy to care about the masses that suddenly hated me because of him leaving.
I met a couple people during this interim when I wasn't rping but was just trying to keep in touch with some people and up to date on notices. I was in a really dark place for a while during the past two months and would love to apologize to anyone I met and offended in that time. But I'm back and back to myself (for the most part) and realizing I still have a lot of friends, may not be the same ones, but they are the true friends who stuck by me when times got really hard for me both in SL and RL.
Love the blog....your awesome Cath! Guess I said more than I had intended to say but this has needed to be said for 2 months. I am not the evil person everyone seems to think I am...I'm a person who got into a fight and lost one of the closest friends she ever had in SL. I mourned his loss and I moved on, it was a rough 2 months....but I moved on. The question is, can all those that suddenly stopped being my friend over this....can they?
Oh and as an afterthought for all you Jody hater/Toby lovers, if I had wanted to bash Toby I'd have said a lot more and with examples. The only reason I mentioned that I have logs is to say that I can back up any allegation I make with logs but I have not showed them to people to influence opinions in any way (except the one GM I showed unnofficially that told me they had gotten complaints as well and regretted voting for him but never in an official capacity despite being asked to file a grievance).
My only point in my above post was to widen the mind of some that are far to narrow-minded to see there are two sides to every story. Again, I do not hide behind denial of my part in his leaving. I said some awful things that I will always regret saying. My only point here is the choice was his and his alone. I too was very sorry to see him go. I do not delete my friends and I do not give up on my friends that easily. I was saddened to see him go and initially I did blame myself as most others have as well. The difference was I knew the full story both of that night and the months preceeding it and I eventually let that guilt go and realized it wasn't my fault. That was my only intention of voicing out here and although it may cause more to hate me I hope they see it was two sided, I regret some things I said and moreso HOW I said them, but I stand by the complaints of how he was treating people as it was not just me. Not an attack on him, just a reality as I see it.
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